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How To Be The Most Ambitious Person In The World

How To Be The Most Ambitious Person In The World

Reading time: 5 minutes

1. Commitment

Nothing great on this earth was done without commitment. When you commit to a course of action it means you are all in. 100% of your mind, body and soul are into this.

A 100% commitment is a hand-shake with your self. I commit to doing ‘this’ with complete dedication.

Ambitious people commit to being committed.

2. Ambitious people understand that no-one is coming

Nathaniel Branden, author of the six pillars of self-esteem had this incredible quote in his office.

“No-one is coming”

Man, when I read that I put the book down and got to work immediately.

Listen up. If you think for one second that someone is coming to take care of you, you are deluding yourself.

No-one is coming. If you want something go and make it a reality.

3. They love the hard work

They don’t work in order to pay for vacation. They love the hard work. They love the hours. They love the hustle. They love the process. They honor the struggle.

Ambitious people have a fantastic relationship with work.

Exercise: write down the first five words you think of when you hear ‘work’.

For most people it’s some of the following:

Hard / Difficult / Draining / Money / Disgust

If you’re associations to work are not all positive like the following:

Money / Love / Creation / Enjoyment / Opportunity

Then change it. You cannot fall in love with work if you have negative associations to it. Convince yourself that work is exciting, and soon it will be.

4. They sleep to recharge

Ambitious people sleep to recharge NOT to escape. They don’t take 3 hour naps. They don’t attempt to squirrel away their energy to save some for later.

They work. They enjoy said work. They recharge in order to get back to work.

If they didn’t need to sleep, they wouldn’t.

5. Ambitious people wake up early

Listen. You can convince yourself whatever the fuck you want. Maybe you think that waking up at 11am is better for ‘creativity’.

The truth: you can’t fuck with nature.

Nature has circadian rhythms. Align yourself with them.

Ambitious people wake up early because it allows them more time to create.

Waking up at 4:30am is absolutely life-changing.

6. Understand the cost, and they pay it

If you want to create at the highest levels there is a cost.

Staying in, going to sleep earlier, working long hours.

Ambitious people understand the cost of achieving their dreams and pay it. Willingly.

7. Enjoy competition

Ambitious people love to win. They compete with themselves and others. The intention behind the competition is for improvement.

Would Usain Bolt be the greatest runner without the Olympics?

8. Ambitious people surround themselves with ambitious people

“Keep away from those who try to belittle your ambitions. small people always do that, but the really great make you believe that you too can become great.” — Mark Twain

When you are surrounded by people also creating at the highest levels, you will too.

Inspire others to dream big and never belittle someone's ambitions. Cheer them on and by doing so you are letting the universe know “I want more of this in my life”.

9. Ambitious people don’t wait for the perfect moment

If you are waiting for the perfect moment, you already missed it.

Take action. Create your reality. Sometimes it’s better to be patient as a strategy but overall your dreams don’t wait you.

10. Ambitious people are confident

They are confident in their skills. They are confident in their attitude, skill and mindset.

They are confident in the fact that they can do anything they set their mind to.

Complete self-belief is crucial for the person that’s climbing up a mountain. An utter deep core understanding that they will not quit no matter what.

11. Ambitious people aren’t realistic

Why oh why have both feet planted on the ground when you can fly in the sky?

If you really want to create and have a major impact then what’s the point of being realistic? Is Elon Musk realistic when he said he wanted to occupy Mars? No.

Being realistic is boring.

12. Ambitious people have an impossible goal

“The great danger for most of us is not that our aim is too high and we miss it, but that it is too low and we reach it.” — Michelangelo

I love impossible goals. It’s one of the first things I do as a coach for my clients.

We create an impossible goal and determine the type of person you have to be in order to create it.

It’s not about achieving the goal as much as the actions you take if you are pursuing it. When you have an impossible goal i.e. land and inhabit Mars it changes the way you think and the actions you take.

If you want to know how ambitious feels like do this exercise in order:

  • Get clear on your impossible goal to accomplish in the next 25 years
  • Now if you absolutely HAD to achieve this goal in the next 90 days or else your right hand was cut off what would you do?

13. Ambitious people don’t let feelings bog them down

You will not hear an ambitious person say any variation of “I don’t feel like doing it.”

They understand that feelings will come and go, but the commitment stays strong.

14. Ambitious people don’t rest on their laurels

They are aligned with the force of forward motion.

They move forward at all costs. Yes they celebrate the victory and the wins but quickly step back on their path.

It’s the process. It’s that journey. It’s the road. It’s the hours of work that is the real enjoyment and not the outcome or result along the way.

15. They move and respond fast

They respond to that email, that message, that opportunity fast.

Quick decisions. Moving forward. Forward Motion. This is how the ambitious person operates.

They don’t fall prey to the Zeigarnik Effect: We remember better that which is unfinished or incomplete.

16. Curiosity as a way of life

Curiosity about problems, about business, about work, about creativity, about whatever they are passionate about.

It’s this curiosity that fuels their progress and mastery of the task at hand.

17. Ambitious people rarely talk about their impossible goal

Most people actually shoot themselves in the foot when they talk about their goals.

We receive a hit of dopamine when we mention our goals which actually dissuades us from pursuing it.

From now on: if you do announce your goal to someone, there is no enjoyment in it. It is ruthless and emotionless.

Attitude: This is happening. I’m creating this reality. No smile at all.

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How To Never Be Shy Again (For Introverts)

How To Never Be Shy Again (For Introverts)

Reading time: 6 minutes

Three years ago I was triggered.

Walking back to my car I was shocked at my reaction in class.

It was in one of those big auditorium classes with 300+ people. The professor was giving a brief description of the difference between extroverts and introverts.

“Extroverts are louder, more social and introverts are shy”.

A noise escaped my throat, which sounded like a combination of a “no!” and a gulp. Looking at the student next to me writing notes: “introvert = shy”.

I was furious. Triggered completely.

Being a very proud introvert this did not go over smoothly.

The Current Narrative

I coach a lot of high-performing introverted men and to this day I’m shocked at the picture of success they have accepted to be true.

Most introverts unconsciously have this idea of what it takes to become ‘successful’.

Success? Well, you must be the life of the party. Loud. Talking to everyone.

So, wanting to be this ideal version of ‘success’, the introvert tries to model this behavior.

The truth of the matter: no matter how great I am at writing with my left hand, I’m still a righty at heart.

Some introverts are shy, some extroverts are shy. Men are shy. Women are shy.

If you consider yourself to be shy, this article will eradicate it for the rest of your life.

7. Become an expert communicator

If you were an expert in swimming and you saw a pool, there would be no fear about diving in. Same with social skills.

You must work consistently on having the best social skills in this entire universe. The more confidence you have in your ability to talk to people the less shy you will feel.

8. New beliefs

Mindset is everything.

If you think you are likeable then people will like you.

If you see people as being friendly and welcoming, that will be your reality.

The way to install this into your brain is simple.

Every time you talk to someone new and it goes well, take 30 seconds to re-affirm the belief (just like I did with the free hugs sign).

Beliefs need proof. Every time someone was nice to you is just further proof for your case. People ARE awesome. People ARE friendly, mind, didn’t you see what just happened? People are so friendly.

9. You are value and you are growing in value

You are value now because you are a human being.

That by itself is enough. You are enough. There is nothing you have to do in order to be more enough.

You are 10000000% enough in this exact moment.

You understand this and consistently build your own value at the same time. You workout, develop social skills, and focus on contributing and making an impact.

10. Focus outward

Shy people constantly focus all their attention on themselves. It’s very selfish and it propels you further and further down the hole of self-consciousness.

Keep all your attention on the person in front of you. Focus intently on their facial expressions and features. Focus on the appreciation you have for this person in front of you.

You choose what you focus on. Choose to focus on something outside of yourself and you will quickly fizzle all shyness from your system.

11. Mental movies and rehearsals

Take time to visualize you interacting with other people. How your ideal self would communicate with others. Visualize people enjoying your company, liking you as a person and being friendly.

This is your mental movie, keep this image fresh in your mind everyday.

The next step is to practice (rehearse) the events. Find a quiet place in your room or with friends and act like that person you visualized.

It might sound weird but talk to the mirror as if you were your ideal self. That charismatic, confident person that’s already inside of you.

12. Join The Bold Wolves Project

This program is the indoctrination to our community for introverted men.

Wolves is our introvert archetype.

Boldness is how we choose to live our life.

It’s crucial to find an empowering community of people that are creators at the highest level. It’s a lot harder to be shy when you are around fully self-expressive people.

Thank you for reading.

Daniel


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41 Ways To Be The Highest Status Person In The Room

41 Ways To Be The Highest Status Person In The Room


1. Workout, sculpt your body to perfection.

This is more than looks. The type of person that spends hours at a discipline. The type of person that doesn’t give into impulses. The type of person that can make a commitment AND keep it.

These are traits of the high status man.This type of person LOVES going to the gym. He is determined and willing to put in the work.

The added benefit of going to the gym is raising your testosterone, becoming happier, sleeping better and increased creativity.

2. Love Yourself

The high status person has an aura of self love that permeates through every single movement. Every spoken word or idea.

It’s a choice to love all of you (including that part you hate). No child has ever looked in the mirror and said “I wish I didn’t have freckles!”.

Love yourself. Love your accent. Love your freckles. Love every part about you, because it’s more useful than hating yourself.

Read “Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends On It” by Kamal Ravikant for more.

3. Raise testosterone and lower cortisol

This is an absolute necessity for men.It’s also an extremely easy fix.

Increased testosterone will have immediate effects on your thoughts.

Better thoughts = better feelings = better actions = better character = better destiny. Raising testosterone literally changes your life.

You lower cortisol because it is the stress hormone. Thus making you more calm, more at ease and increase happiness.

4. Have incredible self-talk

Our mind is simple. It attempts to bring us closer to pleasure and avoid pain.

If your mind thinks about walking into a meeting and the mental pictures you are experiencing are telling you that people are judging you and hating you…rest assured you will be in for a tough time.

High status people have incredible talk in between their ears that allows them to find pleasure in what low status people find painful.

5. Body language

There are experts out there that are much better at talking about this then me. But in terms of principles there are two you must follow:

  • Be open. It’s extremely simple. Just don’t be closed (arms, legs etc).
  • Take up space. High status people are not afraid to take up space and don’t try to act invisible.

6. Be around high status people

If you are around a bunch of low-status people it’s easier to fall into their reality if you aren’t mindful.

If you are stuck with a certain group, then make sure to watch or talk to a friend that's high status or a video of someone you admire.

7. Posture

Chest forward, shoulders back, chin up. Posture changes your thoughts which affect your feelings. It makes you feel immensely more confident.

Posture is not something you turn on and off. If you are reading this right now sitting down….How is your posture?

If it’s absolutely terrible. I recommend you go to the Egoscue clinic. If it’s mediocre read an article about it here.

8. Be actually happy

A great friend of mine said that happiness is smiling to yourself when you are alone in the elevator.

It’s a strong feeling of content. It’s not high energy.

There is a distinction between being happy and joyful.

Joy = happy + excitement.

Happiness is just a deep contentment. You are happy with life and you take conscious steps every day to keep you in this state.

(Gratitude, working out, self-talk, environment).

9. Walk slowly

What's the rush? Slow the fuck down. When you walk slowly you start noticing your surroundings.

You become more mindful.

The high status person is not in a rush to do anything.

If you must walk faster be quick but don’t hurry. Each step is mindful as you kiss your feet against the floor.

10. Don’t be easily impressed

Are you looking at the Mona Lisa? No? Okay, then.

Stop responding to the mundane as if you just heard the news that Pluto became a planet again.

11. Demand attention when you talk

When conversing with another human, make sure your words are landing on engaged ears.

In Russian there is a saying that translated means “do you hear me or are you just listening to me?”.

Pause until you have their full attention. If they are distracted don’t continue the conversation.

12. Think big thoughts

Next time you are waiting, take this opportunity to think BIG THOUGHTS. The high status person is bigger than their problems.

Think about billion dollar problems. Think about your mission in life. Big thoughts fill your head. Contemplate BIG ideas. There is no time to be grounded in reality.

13. Touch people

Touch a shoulder, an elbow, give a hug, shake a hand.

There are no barriers to touching people. Make sure to use social awareness and absolutely no groping. It’s all in the flow of the conversation.

14. High status eye contact

Eyes are filled with warmth and tinged with a sense of aliveness.

When you break eye contact never look down.

The key to high status eye contact is in the transition. Once you lock eyes with someone never dart to the next target. Hold for three, two, one and very slowly look left or right.

15. Do less , be more.

Say a sentence without speaking. Move without moving. Ask without asking.

Follow the law of least effort. What can you communicate in a sentence that used to take a paragraph?

Do less, be more.

16. Have a generous spirit, everyone gets love

Pick up the bill. Pour the drinks. Invite people into conversations.

It’s a generous spirit that surrounds everything you do. Living like this is an expression of having abundance in your life.

17. Boundaries

While having this generous spirit and attitude you have clear boundaries.

You say things like “don’t do that” or “don’t behave like that.”

You have a generous spirit but do not allow people going over your boundaries.

The high status man is not afraid to assert himself against challengers to the throne.

18. Laugh loudly

The high status man doesn’t hold back at all.

Never again hold back your laugh, your smile. Show up fully (that means all of you). If he feels sad, he says it. If he’s happy he says. The high status man is genuine.

19. Shake hands correctly

Read this: A Manly Handshake: An Illustrated Guide

This is part of making a great first impression. Don’t mess this up. It’s simple but not always easy.

20. Don’t go out of your way to befriend high status people

The high status person doesn’t randomly befriend other high status people. If he must, he will.

Ask for introductions. Let it happen naturally and organically. You can have a target but you don’t go out of your way to make a connection. Ask for an introduction. Find commonalities and understand that it won’t happen overnight.

21. Entitled Attitude

The high status person is entitled. There of course is healthy and not healthy levels to this.

Healthy entitlement is the sense that you have the right to want things, even if you might not get them. Or you can be like Conor McGregor’s level of entitlement: Watch this from 3:12 onward.

22. Master how to have great first impressions

Master the craft of having great first impressions. The intention would be that within seconds of meeting you this person is in awe.

Learning to shake someone's hand, warm eye contact, remembering their name and the energetic connection behind it are all crucial to master this.

23. Dress well, utilize the halo effect

Look good you feel good. Get out of your comfort zone. Never wear cargo shorts again. Wear a dress shirt, a tie, nice pants and ABSOLUTELY wear great shoes.

24. Placement

Where are you standing? If the opportunity presents itself the high status man always chooses the most comfortable seat. Choose to have your back against a wall so no-one could be behind you.

25. Walk in and stop.

Walk into the nightclub, the meeting room, the coffee shop and stop for three seconds. Look around, smell the air and then continue on your path. SHOCKING how doing this makes you 668% more charismatic and magnetic.

26. It’s all good

Your mindset is completely content. It’s all good. That’s good. That’s good. Oh, that? that’s also good. Unfailing coolness, it’s all good even if it's bad it’s good. “It’ll be alright” type of attitude. A high status person is bigger than their problems.

27. Have an impossible mission

Have an impossible mission for yourself that you are creating. It takes a great man to decide to occupy Mars. Choosing an impossible goal like stopping world hunger. This elevates your inner world of status to the infinite degree.

28. Speak for the group and to the group

High status people are leaders. Not followers. As a leader you take charge of the group, you speak to the group lead in the direction that’s best for everyone.

29. Have impeccable social skills

You have an incredible external awareness. You understand what’s happening underneath the surface. You understand group dynamics. You feel into the mood of the group as a leader. You know when to be silent. You know when and how to connect deeply.

Communication is your most valuable skill that CAN and MUST be developed.

30. Don’t talk with an upward pitch

You don’t finish your sentences with an upward intonation. This is an expression of people pleasing behavior. You end your statements and questions the same way they were started.

There is not an ounce of people pleasing or seeking for agreement when you communicate as a high status man.

31. Make statements rather than questions.

How are you? vs. Tell me about your day.

What made you do that? vs. Im curious what drove you to do that.

Simple switch that changes the whole dynamics of a conversation.

32. Don’t gossip

Ray Dalio banned gossip in his offices. High status people ban it from their entire life. It makes you look terrible. The high status person is gossiped about, not the gossiper. Plus, remember that you have more important things to talk about like that mission from #27.

33. Don’t complain

The high status man is a creator. He isn’t complaining about how the world is. There is absolutely no reason to complain. The high status man either accepts reality or works to change it.

Stop talking about your emotional injuries “you won’t believe what happen to me today” yes I will, stop your victim shit immediately.

34. Warmth

Warmth in your eye contact. Your voice. Your body language.

It disarms people immediately. Warmth creates connection and lowers the wall that are around people's ability to connect.

35. Have an air of effortlessness

This can only TRULY be achieved if you have suffered, you have put in the fucking work in private to shine in public. You have spent hours perfecting your skills in life and the social world. Then you can truly be effortless and natural and spontaneous.

36. Directness

Yes.

No.

If it’s not a hell yes, it’s a no for now. The high status isn’t ‘floaty’ he is direct and decisive. This is reflected in conversation, movement and presence.

37. Be a master seducer

The world is your playground. You walk into a room and understand that it’s all a game. This is your playful philosophy on life.

You understand the fundamental aspect of humans. They are bored. People are bored. People are begging to be seduced, to be led astray and come alive. The high status person gives them this gift.

PS. The power from a master seducer comes from his ability to BE seduced. Seduced by great food, art, beauty and romance. Be sensitive to pleasure (this puts you in a positive mood no matter what is happening).

38. You don’t need anyones approval.

The high status doesn't do anything for approval. He realizes it’s not his responsibility that people are comfortable in his presence. He doesn’t suppress his energy or spirit for anyone.

The paradox of this, is that people actually like him because he is NOT a people pleaser.

39. Every day raise your status

You work on yourself every single day. Health, wealth, relationships, spirit and all the buckets that matter to you.

Every day you work on your inner prestige so you truly are the highest status person in the universe for YOURSELF.

I’m a Baller.

I'm a Baller.

Reading time: 2 minutes

Seriously, I look at myself in the mirror and realize that I’m as baller as they come.

I walk like a baller, I talk like a baller and you best believe that I am a baller. 

Definition of Baller: For me, it means powerful, sexy and playful. This is one aspect of my personality.

I think how to make my life as magnificent and glorious as possible. I dream big. I inspire others to think louder.

The mission I’m on is to inspire 1 million people to step into their own version of being a baller. To help others sing their song as loudly as possible.

Before we continue, what are you thinking when I say that?

Are you indifferent? Are you confused? Are you triggered? Are you cheering me on?

Being a baller means different things to different people. Some of you might think of Dwayne Johnson from the HBO show ballers. Some people might think about ‘poppin bottles’ at the club. 

All of you will have some type of interpretation.

Let me take you back to when I was 18 years old.

I was blessed to be working in one of the most esteemed hotels in Miami Beach. Five star hotel that was filled with millionaires, billionaires, very successful entrepreneurs and overall powerful people.

For the next three years I worked in different hotels (all luxury) and was able to witness first hand the different type of ballers.

I was working in the recreation department (outside) and subject to being tipped by people constantly.

Calling servers, setting up cabanas, working in the pool and beach etc etc.

I received thousands of dollars in tips. Anywhere from $1 to a $1500 check (tell that story another time).

I noticed the different types of ballers.
 
I noticed that people that tip 50s and 100s rarely hide the bills. They never fold it and hand it out flat.

I noticed that some people fold dollar bills into 100 little squares so it’s smaller then a penny.
 
I notice some people walked fast, some walked slowly.

I could almost immediately tell everything about the person from how they tipped.

Day after day I would study these people. Where their attention went. Who was the highest status person in the group. How millionaires talked to other millionaires.

I was fascinated with all the levels of ballers.

Unconsciously I wanted to become these men. One of my main motivating factors to creating millions of dollars in wealth is to be able to tip the way these people tipped me.

Every now and then I would see a 100% fully fledged gorilla of a baller.

The baller that was fully himself, not caring at all what people thought of him.

I would admire this guy, and study him thoroughly. 

Now, fast forward many moons forward.

Last summer I was being coached by one of the most ‘spiritual’ people I’ve ever met. My roommate Chris. Back when I lived in Boulder, Colorado.

The Baller Awakes

We got clear on what I wanted to create in my life.

Then we started talking about playing the ‘be yourself game’.

Definition of the ‘be yourself game’: In order to win the game, you have to be your most natural, real version of yourself.

Like I said, I was working in hotels and had my career mapped out in front of me. I was 21 years old and leading a group of 50 people (most older than me).

If I stayed put, continued hustling and committed. More money, more opportunities would flock to me.

I didn’t choose this lifestyle. I chose to create a blog. I chose to start my coaching practice. I chose the path less traveled.

The paradox of this path, is that in order to reach the success I wanted to created…

I had to be myself.

I must be authentic, real, or else why would anyone read the words I’m writing?

Why would anyone care about more information?

After talking to him about being myself and what that looks like I started describing the story of me working at hotels when I was younger.

How I loved ballers and admired them.

Being the spiritual guru that he is, he immediately felt the shift in his body and called it out of me.

“You are a baller!”

I looked at him. Confused, slightly startled as the insight landed.

Have you ever had such a powerful insight that you can’t stop laughing?

I literally laughed for the next 3 minutes, not knowing why.

I realized something was changing on a deep, core level.

When I finally calmed down the giggles it hit me immediately. 

I had not given myself permission to express this major part of my personality. I was and always will be a baller and I wasn’t allowing myself to be it fully.

I was showing up at 60% of my baller and it wasn’t doing jack shit.

It was at this moment. 

11,000 feet up in the mountains of Boulder that I decided to win the ‘be yourself game’ completely.

I decided to be 100% myself. I decided to commit to this baller side for the rest of my life.

Question for you, dear reader.

What’s your version of baller?

What’s that part of you that you are afraid to fully express?

That creative part. That loving part. That spiritual part.

That confident, courageous, that incredible magnificent glorious expression that sits doormat.

Give yourself permission.

Do not hold back any longer.

Be your own baller.


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Be silent. Your actions speak loud enough.

Stop talking. Stop wishing. Stop Dreaming. Stop looking for the next hack, the next secret tip.

If someone where to check your bank account for the last three months without knowing anything about you, what would they think about you?

If someone were to follow you around the entire day, how would they describe you as a person?

Is there a discrepancy between what you say and what you do?

You say you are interested in working out and losing weight?

But…your actions say otherwise.

You say you are interested in becoming wealthy beyond your wildest imaginations!

But…you haven’t put away any savings nor invested any money.

You say you are interested in changing your personality, becoming social and charismatic?

But…you don’t talk to strangers, you don’t socialize, you don’t connect.

Climb a mountain and don’t tell a soul.

It’s time to wake up from this illusion that most of us live in.

Create a 30-day challenge for any area of your life that you want to improve. Don’t tell a single person of what you are doing. Prove it to yourself that you are committed. Prove it to the universe that you are willing to put in the work.

Commit to waking up at 5:00am every day.

Commit to not eating junk food for a month.

Commit to saying hello to three strangers every day.

Commit to putting 10% of your income in your savings.

Commit to taking cold showers every single day.

Commit to doing 20 pushups/squats every single day.

Commit to meditating every day.

Don’t tell anyone of this challenge. It’s between you and you.

Your mind will do what you tell it to do.

If you want to break a sweat every day for 30 days, then tell your mind that.

Literally tell yourself:

“I want to break a sweat everyday for the next 30 days” “I choose to break a sweat everyday for the next 30 days, I choose to feel excited and happy every workout I do”. “I love working out, I love improving myself, I love taking action when I go after my goals”.

Your mind wants you to succeed, and make life easier for you.

Boost your self talk, make your new commitment enjoyable, tell yourself that you love it, that it excites you, that it makes you happy, that it fills you with joy.

Then stop talking and do it.

Your actions will show if you really want change, or if you just say you do.

And remember, be silent. Your actions will speak loud enough.


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What Red Wine Can Teach You About Making A Difference

Red Wine’s Ancient Agriculture Secret Revealed

Welcome to another sweet with just a hint of sour edition of the mental game secrets needed to take the challenge called life head on.

Just yesterday…

During my ‘wisdom’ block of my day (talk more about this in future posts)…

I read the most fascinating topic about how grapes turn into wine…

It takes the one grape…

Scientists have found out, it only takes just one grape…

One overly confident purple oval looking ball…

One small speck in a large farm that can last acres…

One troublemaker amongst the gang…

One lone wolf trying to chart his own path through life…

One little grape that decided it’s time...

It’s time…

Let me tell you a little back-story about this one purple organic (seedless) grape that decided to make a difference.

On every wine vineyard there are acres of land dedicated to the planting and harvesting of grapes to make all sorts of wine to be sold away.

While each place has their own traditions, techniques and distilling processes that make it unique they all have one similarity.

Ready for this value?

You sure?

You definitely look ready…

Bold Wolves QTLB (quote to live by #18):

“In a vineyard, one grape will begin to ripen and in so doing will send out a vibration, an enzyme, a fragrance, or an energy field of some kind that is picked up by the other grapes. This one grape signals the other grapes that it is time to change, to ripen.” – Will Bowen ‘A Complaint Free World’

Thanks Will.

Awesome story and such a powerful lesson for us to keep in mind…

Making a difference…

I promise you this…

If you asked that one grape when it began to ripen what difference it expected to make in this world it would look at you crazily.

However…

This one grape that ripened created an entire field of grapes ready to be harvested.

WTF DOES THIS MEAN DANIEL?

It means that as you continue to invest in yourself, get better every single day, take massive action towards your vision you signal to everyone around you and the universe that it is time for a change.

Without even trying, you will raise the consciousness of those around you.” – Will Bowen

Remember this story of the seedless grape as you create your vision into reality.

You cannot track your progression day by day and expect instantaneous results…

You will not be able to tell the difference your making in someone’s life…

Just continue to trust yourself and connect your moment-to-moment actions with  what the best version of yourself would do.

The Game of Perspectives

The Game of Perspectives

Life is...

Ask ten people to free associate what comes up and you will have a complete range of answers.

Life is hard. Life is easy. Life is stressful. Life is difficult. Life is fun. Life is beautiful. Life is sad. Life is a struggle. Life is filled with opportunities.

Well, then. Who is correct?

Maybe it’s all of the above or maybe they are all wrong?

The nature of our mind ends up filling in the blanks then convincing us that it’s a 100% concrete reality.

Perhaps, it is.

Life is hard for me! So it therefore must be hard for everyone else. 

Hard truth:

Here is something we know for sure: this physical body of ours will die eventually.

Let’s guesstimate that it will happen in 60+ years.

60 years. 21,900 days. 525,600 hours. 31,536,000 minutes.

Because of numerous factors you currently have a dominant perspective on how life is.

The funny thing about life is that it’s a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you believe that life is , lets say, hard? Then you will experience life as hard. If you say, perhaps life is a game? Then you will experience life as a game.

There is no correct answer to how to view life.

It’s up to us as individuals to crack open our perspective vault and view life in the perspective that is serving us the most.

The game of perspectives...

Consciously choosing the perspective that serves you the most.

Is life happening for your benefit or against you?

It’s a choice of how you view the world.

Start building and growing your perspective vault. Constantly place deposits into it as if it’s a bank.

View life from the perspective as a kid, as a champion, as a king, as a master seducer, as a leader, as the person you admire most does.

Find the perspective that serves you the most and start playing that game.

I ask you again...

Life is...


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Why Your ‘To-Do’ List Is Crushing You

Are you driving or being driven?

Do you look back at the last couple years and think 'Where did all that time go?'

Do you follow the common trail or branch out and trailblaze?

Are you letting impulses control your life?

If your life was a color, would it be gray?

During some coaching calls it becomes crystal clear.

When the cost of not pursuing what makes them happiest, their grandest dreams is put directly in front of them. 

Here, this is the cost of you living small.

Look at it.

Stare at it.

This is the cost! Are you okay with that?

They lean back, think for a moment as the weight of the power of choice falls down on them. 

Committing to singing your song...loudly, is not easy.

It's easy to live a victim filled,  mundane, average 'gray' lifestyle.

It's challenging to step into the role as a creator in this life.

However, I believe that this is the fundamental shift that we must make as humans in order to truly be happiest, fulfilled and live lives of meaning. 


I am committed to making grand ideas, philosophies and concepts into simple practical steps.

I consistently ask myself what are the small steps I can take, the subtle changes that will change everything.

Today, I want to present one of these practical steps.

We have all heard of the dreaded 'to-do list'.

The list that's filled with anxiety.

You accomplished 20 items on your to-do list, not 21? Obviously, you are not productive enough.

Many high-performers have these impossible standards for themselves.

You climbed to the top of Mt. Everest? Great...but did you walk on the moon?

Guilt, self-sabotage, anxiety and stress. 

It becomes a 'I have to do list' that fills you with desperation.

You no longer feel inspired, you no longer want to create, and there is no enjoyment in going through the process.

I used to look at the list and force myself to tackle it day in and day out.

Maybe I don't have enough discipline! That's it.

Maybe it's my level of focus! For sure that's it.

Willpower? Of course, how was I missing that!

While discipline, focus and willpower are essential to your success and must be upgraded to the highest levels, is it really the solution?

The subtle distinction:

From now on, I want to invite you to add two words before your 'to do list'.

From now on, on the top of the paper, journal or wherever you plan add:

"I WANT TO....DO LIST"

I want to send this email ​vs​​​ I have to send this email 

Desperation vs Inspiration.

Being pulled toward your goals vs dragging yourself forward

Before going to the next item on your 'to do list' say to yourself. I want to do this.

I want to write this article.

I want to, I don't have to do anything in this world but die.

I want to do this.

Choose choice, and acknowledge that you have CHOICE!

It's the fundamental shift from victim to creator that we mentioned earlier.

Choose, acknowledge your choice and continue moving forward.

Daniel


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Seeking Beauty, The Ultimate Inspiration For Life

Beauty.

A topic I would casually glance over a year ago. 

A topic that had no interest for me.

A topic that has rapidly become my greatest ally on this journey and adventure of life.

Beauty has slowly but surely become my greatest source of inspiration, my fuel against the mundane, the evil, the mediocrity that surrounds and plots to bring us down. 

Beauty is the compass, it fills me up with possibilities, leaving me with a bunch of "I can!" vs. "I cannot".

Is it even important in this day and age? Does beauty matter?

Have you fallen off the rails, Daniel?

Perhaps...but for a moment, entertain me. 


Seek Beauty

Where can one find beauty? Where should we seek it?

Real beauty is located beneath the surface of everything in this world. It requires principle #3 'slowing down' in order to grasp it. Watch this video for an example: 

Beauty is not reserved for the seven wonders of the world, beauty is everywhere you look.

Without beauty, this is just a plastic bag, with beauty it makes your heart cringe, fills you with inspiration and leaves you speechless.

What a radical difference it is once you look beneath the surface. 

I consciously choose to seek beauty because as I go through my journey, even an object like a plastic bag could provide an abundance of inspiration and fuel to keep going.

I made this choice because I understood that just getting by, surviving not thriving and saying 'where did the last 5 years of my life go', was not for me.


What beauty is not

Was Vincent Van Gogh's paintings beautiful before they were worth millions of dollars?

Yes, however they did not have anyone to appreciate it.

Society will bombard us with images of what 'beauty is' but the reality is simple:

Beauty cannot be owned, possessed or captured. 

Our intention and duty, is to allow our hearts to open, allow the inspiration of beauty to crawl in.

"Everything has beauty but not everyone sees it." - Confucious.

Beauty hurts, it breaks our hearts and fills us with pain.

Andrew Harvey said it best: "If you're really listening, if you're awake to the poignant beauty of the world, your heart breaks regularly. In fact, your heart is made to break; its purpose is to burst open again and again so that it can hold evermore wonders."

My invitation to you, today is to seek beauty.

Seek the moments where beauty makes you cry, fills you with delight and sends shivers down your body. 

Every single moment is an opportunity to inject beauty into this world.

Every single human interaction has the potential to be filled with elegance, poise, grace and beauty. 

Seek beauty no matter the cost, for it is the fuel for a life worth living.  

Daniel


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20 Insights From My 10 Day Vipassana Meditation Retreat

The following collection of realizations and ideas are my personal evaluation of my recent experience at a 10-day Vipassana meditation center.

Solitude, journaling and walking in nature allowed these ideas to bubble up to the surface.

It’s hard to trace back to the exact moment when I decided to apply for this Vipassana meditation course but I felt that I needed some valuable introspection time.

My intuition and gut told me to just take the chance.

Take the plunge Daniel, just fucking do it.

I read some articles on other experiences; saw two of my mentors talk about how influential this period was for them.

I had been meditating consistently for two years now…

I mean how hard could it really be?

Late November 2015 I signed up for a course in February 2016, decided to finally take action and see where this experience takes me.

So what is Vipassana?

I mean there are hundreds of meditation techniques out there…

Visualization, transcendental meditation, pranayama, crazy dynamic meditations from Osho amongst many many others..

What makes Vipassana special?

What makes it different?

This is the same technique that the Buddha used 2500 years ago to reach his state of ‘enlightenment’ or complete liberation.

Vipassana teaches you to see things as they really are. Not the way you want them to be.

It is not a religion or faith.

The claim: this technique purifies the mind, frees you from suffering all through self-observation.

Believe in that reality or not… it doesn’t matter much.

It’s been around for quite some time so maybe that’s what makes it special.

Who fucking knows?

Upon arriving at the meditation center, I seriously had no idea what I was getting into.

Ten days of silence. No verbal or nonverbal communication.

4:00am – 9:30pm schedule..

Extreme meditation boot camp?

Yes.

Fuck it dude.

‘You’re a personal development master, you know all this information, you have clients who have experienced tremendous results, products that contain incredible value. You have an entire wolf pack of dedicated individuals growing and living boldly. This should be easy.’

I fistbumped my ego, which made me feel quite good and slowly woke up the following day at 4:00am to a loud gong right outside my room.

It begins…

I could separate my experience into five parts on foresight..

Day 1-2
Difficulty: Easy /’Ten days will be simple, I got this’

Day 3-4
Difficulty: Moderate /’I could leave right now’

Day 4-6
Difficulty: Extreme /’I could leave to leave’

Day 7-8
Difficulty: Delusional /’My brain is like a vegetable’

Day 9
Difficulty: Extreme /’Almost there.. Almost there.. Almost there.. Almost there..’

Day 10 (noble silence is lifted mid day)
Difficulty: Moderate / ‘Just make it to mid-day..’

There were periods of extreme suffering, mental exhaustion, and delusion.

There were periods of self-belief, determination and faith in myself.

I got the whole range of emotions.

At the end of the day I knew it’s just not a reality for me to give up on this.

I’m not leaving this unfinished.

I’m not quitting.

The following 20 wisdom bombs are a collection from the nightly discourses by S.N. Goenka, my own realizations and numerous journaling exercises that I conducted despite being (forbidden). Sue me.

Wisdom Bomb #1
There are three types of wisdom in this world.

1) Wisdom gained by listening to others (like reading this article, investing in programs, coaches, books and information in general).

2) Wisdom gained through intellectual/analytical understanding. It can be connected to the wisdom of listening to others. You learn something new, you actually take time to THINK about this information and question it’s validity.

3) Wisdom gained through direct personal experience. You experienced the realization yourself. It’s the highest level of wisdom. It’s the truth. You might know that touching the hot coal will burn you but no lesson is greater than touching it yourself and experiencing the burn.

Use this wisdom bomb to find knowledge that you ‘know’ and find ways on how to actually take physical action and experience the truth in your own reality.

Powerful.

Wisdom Bomb #2
Walk in nature.

There was a walking path deep into nature at the center I was at. I walked it over 100 times during the ten days and every single time I noticed something new.

Something beautiful.

There is so much beauty surrounding us, at times I would just stop and stare at trees, birds flying and the universal law of nature work it’s magic in front of me.

Use this wisdom bomb as often as you can for concentrated thinking and add it to your creative process.

Wisdom Bomb #3
Master yourself

Timeless wisdom. I could write for days on the importance of mastering your mind, but not here.

By day 6-7 I had more control over my mental thoughts than I ever had before. I would walk for thirty minutes thinking about a single topic. This was impossible for me before without getting distracted.

Having the ability to be in silence for a period of time or sitting completely still for a while are indicators if you are a slave to your mind or in control of your reality as a creator.

Use this wisdom bomb and test it out for yourself, can you sit still for 5 minutes? Can you think about a single question for long periods of a time? If you cannot, there is a good chance that you are not in control of your life.

Wisdom Bomb #4
Masterminds

Once the ‘noble silence’ is lifted you are allowed to talk.

It’s fucking weird to talk, silence is just so normal by that point.

They allow you to talk on this day as a kind of ‘shock absorbing’ as you slowly return to the rest of society.

In the cafeteria after the initial shock dissolved the next thing you know there was 6-8 of the guys that I had walked by without addressing hundreds of times beforehand now sharing experiences and masterminding.

We continued talking and sharing about personal development, biology, neurology, metaphysics, spiritual psychology and numerous other topics.

We talked until 1:00am the next morning after realizing that we still have to wake up at 4:00am for our last meditation. Until this day the discoveries we talked about and being around a group of like-minded individuals still holds weight for me.

Use this wisdom bomb and find someone with a wealth of knowledge in ANYTHING. Take him or her to lunch, inspire each other and share. Check out this video I recorded exactly about this subject.

Wisdom Bomb #5

Be quick but don’t hurry

99% of people are in rush, reacting to outside stimuli.

There is a difference between moving fast and being quick (in control, present) vs. rushing and hurrying to get everywhere (reacting, unaware).

This concerns every part of your life, and was ever prevalent in the meditation hall.

You are sitting without moving for hour periods at a time in complete stillness. You become in touch with your body. Burping, stomach rumblings, different sensations all appear depending on the food you eat.

I experienced this first hand and realized that you literally ARE WHAT YOU EAT. I knew this on an intellectual level however I directly realized the amount of energy my body uses to produce and process what I bring into my temple.

Use this wisdom bomb and eat slowly, eat less (1/4th less) and start feeling what food does for your mind and body. Never react to your outside and be quick if you want however don’t hurry around aimlessly.

Wisdom bomb #6
Sunsets and sunrises

Dude. They are beautiful. Nature is unbelievable. Just look at the clouds, they are in complete disarray and full of chaos yet exactly how they are supposed to be at that moment. Perfect.

I know I sound like a complete hippie but start looking for beauty in nature as it just proves that there is beauty within you.

Use this wisdom bomb and watch the next sunset and sunrise, notate the different colors and compare them to the previous/next day.

Wisdom bomb #7
Emotional Work

Bold Wolves is huge on working on yourself at a core, root level. That means looking at your misery, happiness, emotions and being cool with it all.

This Vipassana course was explained as being an open surgery for 9 days.

Lots of pus will come out and that will only help the healing and growing part of your life.

Letting old emotions and anger bubble up to the surface and letting it go is just so key to living well. It’s time to cut the anchor off and set sail!

Use this wisdom bomb and start/continue to work on yourself on a deep, core level by letting emotions bubble up after your morning meditation. Be cool with what comes up; bring awareness to it than send love. Powerful.

Wisdom Bomb #8
Presence

“Flow in the living moment. — We are always in a process of becoming and nothing is fixed. Have no rigid system in you, and you’ll be flexible to change with the ever changing. Open yourself and flow, my friend. Flow in the TOTAL OPENNESS OF THE LIVING MOMENT. If nothing within you stays rigid, outward things will disclose themselves. Moving, be like water. Still, be like a mirror. Respond like an echo.” – Bruce Lee

When you are not present you are thinking of the past/future and those thoughts are either pleasant or unpleasant. Enjoy right now, as corny as it sounds.

Use this wisdom bomb and try living and enjoying this moment. This does not mean ‘YOLO’. Live life. Enjoy. Experience fully and spontaneously.

Wisdom Bomb #9
Bound to be successful

Again and again, again and again…

Seriously he repeated this shit non-stop.

This one mantra that is so simple and profound…

‘Work diligently, patiently and persistently…patiently and persistently and you are bound to be successful. Bound to be successful.”

Simple.

He follows up this wisdom with ‘continuity of practice is the secret of success’.

Use these two wisdom bomb mantras as a reminder to continue working diligently, patiently and persistently and you are bound to be successful in whatever endeavor you set out to achieve.

Wisdom Bomb #10
Acceptance

Our mind is pretty fucked up dude.

Most people just react to outside stimuli constantly. We crave more pleasant experiences and start to hate all the misery.

It just does not make sense if you truly want true happiness.

Misery will be here for the rest of our life. Accept that fact by itself.

The actual meaning of ‘Vipassana’ is to see things as they really are.

Radically accept this exact moment. *Don’t fight with reality (you will lose).

Use this wisdom bomb to practice accepting the reality of your ‘now’ as it is and NOT how you want it to be. Observe.

Wisdom Bomb #11
Equanimity

My favorite word right now…

‘Mental calmness, composure, and evenness of temper, especially in a difficult situation.’

The Vipassana technique teaches you remain equanimous with whatever sensation you are experiencing on a moment-to-moment basis.

You accept the reality of the situation and keep it cool calm and collected. Your state does not get affected by outside influences.

Use this wisdom bomb next time you are elated with positivity or extremely sad with a current moment. Observe your emotions objectively and with equanimity.

Observe. Observe. Observe. Observe. No more reactivity to outside stimuli! OBSERVE!

Wisdom Bomb #12
Hope

No matter how the sun is covered by clouds, it will always be there.

There is always hope, there is always a light, there is always a path to becoming a better version of yourself no matter how bad your status quo is.

Use this wisdom bomb to start/continue your journey to becoming your best self NOW. The best time already past however the second best time is right now. Improve, grow, give and love.

Wisdom Bomb #13
3 types of action

There are three types of actions contrary to popular belief.

Physical, vocal and mental action…

Which is the most important?

It’s mental. Every physical or vocal type of action all started with a thought. The seed gets planted in your brain and then grows into reality in the outer world.

Use this wisdom bomb to understand and erase all negative thoughts from your mind, focus on self-mastery and observing your state instead of reacting.

Wisdom Bomb #14
Addictions

We all are addicted to something. Different levels of addictions however our desire for something has become into a need.

A craving…

The reality is that you are not addicted to alcohol, TV, any negative (insert your vice here)…

You are addicted to the feeling… the sensation.

Use this wisdom bomb to observe the feeling, craving and sensation on a deep level rather than use your go-to vice. Observe the feeling; do not fall for your typical habit pattern.

Wisdom Bomb #15
Storms

‘I had such a great day today’

‘It’s just been a bad week so far…’

‘I had a really energized morning’

‘What a terrible night’

There are so many factors in your emotional, physical state however on a macro scale you have to understand this reality.

You will experience wins and loses.

There will be times in your life that are ‘storms’ where you seem to fail everywhere you go. Understand that this is part of the law of nature. There are seasons, there is misery and there is happiness.

Use this wisdom bomb to accept the reality of your moment with equanimity. Both the storms and the perfect weather will pass and so will your failures and successes.

Wisdom Bomb #16
Four types of people

According to the Buddha there are four types of people.

Person A – Dark to dark
Person B – Light to dark
Person C – Dark to light
Person D – Light to light

You must choose to become either person C/D. Head towards the light. Surround yourself with self-actualizing people that are growing spiritually, physically and mentally.

Use this wisdom bomb to recognize which one you are and continue dominating your path.

Wisdom Bomb #17
Habit pattern of your mind

We are all just a bunch of habits. It’s crazy.

I noticed this directly at the retreat.

People would sit in the same seat every time; use the same urinal, walking path, shower and everything you can name.

I’m not saying habits are bad as I agree with Brian Tracy’s view on successful people are just people with successful habits.

However…

You cannot just live in this same original, no adventure type lifestyle. Change your regular habits! Step out of your comfort zone.

Use this wisdom bomb and recognize areas where you have just been going through the motions. Not present and very boring. Start by taking another route home, sitting in a different chair and ordering something crazy at the restaurants. Change the habit pattern of your mind.

Wisdom Bomb #18
Correct type of motivation

Goenka tells a story on how he had to summon a doctor because a member of his family was very sick. Since at the time he could afford it he knew that he wanted to pay the best doctor in the region.

Sadly…

That doctor was always busy. Lines down the street almost every day.

However he decided he would visit regardless because he wanted to reach the best person to heal his family member.

Upon arriving to the doctor’s office he was shocked when he saw there was no line!

Walking into the door he saw the doctor lying on the floor crying.

Goenka: ‘What’s wrong! What happen to you?’
Doctor: ‘Business has been so bad… no one is sick this season’
Goenka: ‘Isn’t that a good thing having no one sick?’
Doctor: ‘Not for me, I want more sick people as that is how I can make more money’

Understand the importance of having the correct type of motivation. The doctor was using his practice to make money, not to help people.

Use this wisdom bomb and reflect if your business or lifestyle decisions are for selfish greed or for the good of everyone.

Wisdom Bomb #19
Fair trials

There is so much wisdom out there. I’ve fallen prey to constantly looking for new information as if it’s crack.

My love of learning is a definite strength if used correctly however I realized I had to stop spreading myself thin.

No more half assing shit.

Goenka illustrates an example of how if you are riding a beautiful black horse in your village and someone comes over and says

‘Your horse is so awesome and mine is also great…would you like to try?’

‘Sure. I will try your horse but I will not leave mine. I will have one foot on yours and one foot on my horse.’

You can probably tell how this story would end for the guy.

Use this wisdom bomb if you are willing to experience something (new meditation retreat) and just go all in. Give it a fair trial before you make your final decision on your course of action.

Wisdom Bomb #20
Change

‘Save the best for last did you Daniel… I see what you did there…’

Well I’m sorry but if you made it to this point of the article I have to show you just how essential this is.

The number one law of nature (universal law of the world) is change. Everything is just changing, growing and decaying on a macro and especially micro level. Trillions of micro changes are happening every second that you cannot even realize.

The law of impermanence, it is easy to understand on an intellectual level.

‘Of course Daniel, everything is constantly changing that’s not new…’

The Vipassana technique without going into too much detail tells you to observe your bodily sensations. You realize how everything that comes up eventually leaves no matter how painful or itchy or frustrating it is. You experience the change at such a root level that it is unreal.

In your worse times and in your best times remind yourself that this will pass eventually. It always does. Do not attach any additional stress, misery to this law of nature.

Use this wisdom bomb to stop all of your good/bad interpretations and transcend it to just accepting the reality of the moment. Observe it with equanimity. Observe it the way it is and not the way you want it to be.

——————–

All in all it was quite the experience.

These were twenty realizations/reminders that I thought were very influential and wanted to share with you all.

There was a TON of deeper, core level stuff that I learned as well that I will be discussing in the near future.

In conclusion…

I could see myself going there a year from now for some period of solitude.

In the mean I look forward to continue creating, growing and inspiring Bold Wolves into the indestructible force it is bound to become.

See you soon champ,

Daniel


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